I’m always asking people what they want. Sometimes I don’t have a preference. Other times I just want to people please. sigh. I’m used to the other person KNOWING what they want..and not having a problem stating it.
The point of this ramble is that I may have lost an Avon customer due to the above and my social ineptness. Did I stare/look at her the wrong way? Did I say the wrong thing? Did I make the wrong decision? Should I have smiled?
Will she give me another chance? Did I ruin something again? It’s not everyday that I get a $125 order. I kind of wanted another chance. LOL.
Who said, “All is well that ends well”? 😉 Whatever.
I think I’m in love with Gabourey Sidibe. It is not because I saw Tower Heist this weekend. Or that I loved the movie Precious. It is because I read something she said and had what Oprah would call a light bulb moment.
People always ask me, ‘You have so much confidence. Where did that come from?’ It came from me. One day I decided that I was beautiful, and so I carried out my life as if I was a beautiful girl. I wear colors that I really like, I wear makeup that makes me feel pretty, and it really helps. It doesn’t have anything to do with how the world perceives you. What matters is what you see.
I’m not going to start wearing make up or anything. heh. But what she said really resonated with me because she really does carry herself that way. Her self confidence is not fake. Just watch one of her interviews and you will see it is 100% real. This women inspires me. I’ve never followed her before. I didn’t even know her age or anything about her life. I was just checking sports scores on Yahoo and her name was trending so I clicked on it. And now I’m obsessed.
Another quote I loved from the interview:
I hate yoga so much. Like, if yoga was a person, I’d stab them.
ROFL! I’m a yoga person but I totally get that statement. haha.